A project designed to help adult victims of childhood sexual abuse overcome shame and give them a voice to contribute to change
One of the primary goals of Walk Your Shame Out is to encourage survivors of childhood sexual abuse to walk away from the shame they should never have carried in the first place.
Shame is one of the most powerful barriers that prevent survivors of childhood sexual abuse from speaking out about their experiences. This shame often stems from a deep sense of self-blame, where survivors may internalize feelings of guilt or responsibility for the abuse, making it even more difficult to share their story with others.
And when they do speak, they often feel ashamed to expose those who failed to protect them or to intervene.
Walking away from shame to break the silence and relieve the inner pain
Walking away from the shame of childhood sexual abuse is a crucial step in breaking the silence that keeps survivors trapped in emotional pain. If left unaddressed, the trauma of childhood sexual abuse can manifest in destructive ways, both emotionally and physically, perpetuating the cycle of shame.
By letting go of the shame and speaking out, survivors can begin to relieve their pain and start addressing it.
Walking away from shame to receive support and reduce isolation
Shame often isolates survivors, making them feel alone in their experiences. Walking away from this shame opens the door to connection and support from others. By stepping away from isolation, survivors are able to seek out communities, whether in the form of therapy, support groups, or trusted friends, that can offer empathy and help. Walk Your Shame Out aims to help survivors realize they are not alone, and to feel the strength that comes from receiving the support they need to heal. It fosters a network of individual who share similar experiences, along with allies who want to learn more and offer their support.
Walking away from shame to raise awareness and contribute to change
Coming out of the silence about childhood sexual abuse is a crucial step in raising awareness and breaking the cycle of harm. The shame that often surrounds the topic stems largely from its status as a taboo subject, one that society prefers to avoid rather than confront. This silence is not only isolating for survivors, but it also perpetuates the stigma, making it harder for individuals to seek help. While support networks, therapy, and advocacy groups can provide help, the seclusion of childhood sexual abuse survivors into isolated spaces or support groups inadvertently reinforces the idea that this issue is something to be hidden, not addressed openly. In reality, the societal silence around this issue only benefits the abusers.
Let’s change the narrative and encourage survivors to speak up. They’ve endured the unbearable experience of childhood sexual abuse, and because they wish no one else should suffer the same, they have so much wisdom to share. They could be powerful contributors to creating change. Let’s encourage them to break the silence, share their advice, and teach us how to reduce the cycle of harm.
How? Through a Sweatshirt!
When you see someone wearing a Walk Your Shame Out sweatshirt, you are witnessing a survivor of childhood sexual abuse taking a brave step toward healing—both for themselves and the broader community. This act of courage is an invitation to acknowledge their strength, whether through a kind word or a compassionate smile. Above all, we encourage you to respond with empathy and kindness.
If you are a survivor, this is an opportunity to connect with someone who understands and acknowledges what you have been through. Share only what feels comfortable for you and only when you’re ready. Healing happens in community, and there is profound strength in being surrounded by others who truly understand your experience.
When you're ready to Walk Your Shame Out, get your free sweatshirt and proudly wear it—whether with us in SF or on your own, if you're ready. We also encourage you to share your thoughts on how we can better prevent childhood sexual abuse and provide support, based on your own story. We need your voice, let’s break the silence and contribute to change.